First I read about adult education focused on getting women the math skills they need to start businesses or enter trades.
Then I started working out the key for Sunday's Foxtrot...
...and iTunes started playing "Mandelbrot Set".
(Of course, if you know the characters you can probably predict the first 8 letters of the message... ;)
Then I started working out the key for Sunday's Foxtrot...
...and iTunes started playing "Mandelbrot Set".
(Of course, if you know the characters you can probably predict the first 8 letters of the message... ;)
stir-fried links
Apr. 7th, 2009 02:35 pmHow Ethiopians have coffee: Don't just grind the beans yourself - roast them.
Reading thetea leaves cardboard boxes.
American teenage girl uses Facebook and cops in two countries avert an attempted suicide.
Reading the
American teenage girl uses Facebook and cops in two countries avert an attempted suicide.
oh good god...
Apr. 7th, 2009 10:44 amYesterday's Seattle Times: Breakup Ignited Dad's Deadly Rage in Graham.1
Today's Seattle Times headline: Slain Children's Mother says Husband was Abusive for Years
Think about this for a minute. The man murdered five children. His OWN five children. This is NOT a normal reaction to a partner leaving. This is NOT the action of a normal person, even one who's under the stress of a breakup.2 This is NOT justified.
But abusers DO threaten to hurt their partner - or their partner's kids - if the partner leaves. Sometimes they follow through. And they blame their actions on their partner ("See what you made me do").
It should not be surprising that a person who killed five children because his wife left was an abuser. Although I suppose I should be glad that it's not being spun as "See, people live in small towns because they can't cope with normal life."
~o~
1Slog has a good point about this headline: "A man kills five children and blames a woman, the woman "ignites" the man's actions. Her actions set him off; his actions were prompted, involuntary."
2Another good point: Why no mention of mental illness? Why is this presented as "just a guy dealing with a breakup" as if this is common way to deal with a breakup? "Oh, I don't want to deal with custody issues, I'll just kill my kids."
Today's Seattle Times headline: Slain Children's Mother says Husband was Abusive for Years
Think about this for a minute. The man murdered five children. His OWN five children. This is NOT a normal reaction to a partner leaving. This is NOT the action of a normal person, even one who's under the stress of a breakup.2 This is NOT justified.
But abusers DO threaten to hurt their partner - or their partner's kids - if the partner leaves. Sometimes they follow through. And they blame their actions on their partner ("See what you made me do").
It should not be surprising that a person who killed five children because his wife left was an abuser. Although I suppose I should be glad that it's not being spun as "See, people live in small towns because they can't cope with normal life."
1Slog has a good point about this headline: "A man kills five children and blames a woman, the woman "ignites" the man's actions. Her actions set him off; his actions were prompted, involuntary."
2Another good point: Why no mention of mental illness? Why is this presented as "just a guy dealing with a breakup" as if this is common way to deal with a breakup? "Oh, I don't want to deal with custody issues, I'll just kill my kids."
*headdesk* *headdesk* *headdesk*
Mar. 31st, 2009 08:23 pmI remember laughing when I read #21 in Simplify Your Life: "Sell the damn boat."
Well, now you can't, at least, you often can't at the right price, and they're a little big to just throw in the trash. So more pleasure boat owners abandoning their boats or even sinking them, making them into both navigational & environmental hazards.
Some owners deliberately sink or "lose" the boat and then tell the insurance company it was an accident. Yes, this is fraud.
California's come up with a novel solution: if it's seaworthy, you can give it to the state to dispose of for free. Hopefully they will handle disposal in a smart (recycling as appropriate?) way.
I wonder if people are abandoning cars too, or if they tend to end up back at the dealership.
Well, now you can't, at least, you often can't at the right price, and they're a little big to just throw in the trash. So more pleasure boat owners abandoning their boats or even sinking them, making them into both navigational & environmental hazards.
Some owners deliberately sink or "lose" the boat and then tell the insurance company it was an accident. Yes, this is fraud.
California's come up with a novel solution: if it's seaworthy, you can give it to the state to dispose of for free. Hopefully they will handle disposal in a smart (recycling as appropriate?) way.
I wonder if people are abandoning cars too, or if they tend to end up back at the dealership.
Interesting...
Mar. 26th, 2009 11:27 pmTwitter has ghosts
Caffeine increases athletic performance
and from Psychology Today: Field Guides to Neat Freaks & Pack Rats.
Caffeine increases athletic performance
and from Psychology Today: Field Guides to Neat Freaks & Pack Rats.
Minor items of note
Mar. 23rd, 2009 07:45 pm1. It's raining.
2. Jet City Pizza - at least the Redmond location - has closed. The Redmond Jet City number now rings Garlic Jim's.
3. Courtesy of Slog and Seattle PD comes this brief lesson in how not to get a job.
2. Jet City Pizza - at least the Redmond location - has closed. The Redmond Jet City number now rings Garlic Jim's.
3. Courtesy of Slog and Seattle PD comes this brief lesson in how not to get a job.
We are a strange society. Grown men attend a football game in subzero temperatures, strip to the waist and paint themselves the colors of their chosen team, chanting and dancing in their seats, and we shrug and call them "fans." But a man dons chainmail for a weekend among fellow medieval-fantasy fans and we call him dysfunctional. Presumably intelligent women strip naked and irradiate themselves in a box to darken their skin, and we shrug. But a woman tightens herself into an authentic Victorian corset dress for a steampunk convention, and this is "abnormal." — TVGeek: SyFy Disses the American Geek
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dakiwiboid for the link. :)
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- 13:44 love Arlo & Janis today ...
- 21:31 QOTD: "to get rid of debt, you have to begin living a debt-free life even before you are." tinyurl.com/dbnxdw
- 21:32 Well, there's also winning the lottery. :)
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mmm...cassoulet
Feb. 19th, 2009 10:44 amI first had cassoulet at Voila. I first read a recipe for it in Tony Bourdain's cookbook, where he notes that it's one of the standard French restaurant offerings because you can vary the meats and veggies to use up what's around. Or, if you do it with duck confit (like his restaurant does) it doesn't matter that it takes multiple days because you can just have it be a standard kitchen background task.
OTOH, this cassoulet recipe wouldn't take all day, much less multiple days. Might have to try it.
OTOH, this cassoulet recipe wouldn't take all day, much less multiple days. Might have to try it.
morning links
Feb. 3rd, 2009 10:45 amEpidemiology of rumors. (I googled "epidemiology" to get the correct spelling. It says it is correct. Wow.)
The local paper which may be closing? Ran articles on coping with unemployment and risks of starting your own business.
"Living in the now" not only helps you focus, it can also reduce stress.
The local paper which may be closing? Ran articles on coping with unemployment and risks of starting your own business.
"Living in the now" not only helps you focus, it can also reduce stress.
Alison's Essential Dykes presentation
Dec. 31st, 2008 02:00 pmThis video is of Alison's DTWOF slideshow presentation and Q&A at the Booksmith in San Francisco during the Essential Dykes to Watch Out For tour, on November 10, 2008. Note the several references to the recent election :)
(You don't have to know the comic to enjoy the presentation. I think. :)
(You don't have to know the comic to enjoy the presentation. I think. :)
The office temp tends to nosedive around 5pm every day. The scarf I've had around my shoulders all day is now wrapped around my head and neck for a Scottish Muslim effect.
Meanwhile, the WSJ discovered "unfriending" and MSNBC found out that family can make you crazy. "It's ♫ a slow newsday after all ..." ♫
Meanwhile, the WSJ discovered "unfriending" and MSNBC found out that family can make you crazy. "It's ♫ a slow newsday after all ..." ♫
White Christmas
Dec. 25th, 2008 12:21 pmNot sure if this is my first or second white Christmas. I spent all those years wanting it, and now...eh. Pretty, but a pain.
A few links you might find interesting ...
The Von Trapps's ski lodge in Vermont is still around, though the staff hides some of the more kitschy "Sound of Music" stuff from the boss.
Junk Food Science tackles the prevalence of peanut allergies. One thing I thought interesting is that studies find that the number of parents who believe their kids have allergies is much greater than those who confirm it through double-blind testing (skin pricks confirmed with food challenges against a placebo). This study was on infants, and this one was on teenagers. Perhaps other food intolerances are being lumped in as allergies? Lactose intolerance due to lack of lactase, for example, affects 1 in 10 - much more than allergies.
Perception of pain can vary depending on your perception of how it occurred.
Applying "evidence-based practices" in drug/alcohol rehab situations.
A few links you might find interesting ...
The Von Trapps's ski lodge in Vermont is still around, though the staff hides some of the more kitschy "Sound of Music" stuff from the boss.
Junk Food Science tackles the prevalence of peanut allergies. One thing I thought interesting is that studies find that the number of parents who believe their kids have allergies is much greater than those who confirm it through double-blind testing (skin pricks confirmed with food challenges against a placebo). This study was on infants, and this one was on teenagers. Perhaps other food intolerances are being lumped in as allergies? Lactose intolerance due to lack of lactase, for example, affects 1 in 10 - much more than allergies.
Perception of pain can vary depending on your perception of how it occurred.
It hurts plenty when someone, say, bonks you on the head with a badminton racket. But it hurts even more, researchers have found, if you think the bonking was no accident.
Applying "evidence-based practices" in drug/alcohol rehab situations.
Because laughter is a good thing....
Dec. 22nd, 2008 10:01 pmGingerbread AT-AT Walker
There exists a Cunt Coloring Book. Part of me is fascinated and part of me is scared.
I also agree with this sentiment:

There exists a Cunt Coloring Book. Part of me is fascinated and part of me is scared.
I also agree with this sentiment:

The NY Times blog "Bitten" is syndicated at
bittenblog_nyt.
Slate's Explainer tackles Iraqis & shoes.
More locally, The Stranger's Erica Barnett provides this illuminating interview with Metro General Manager Kevin Desmond on what the hell's been up with Metro the last 2 days. In a nutshell: Thursday their snow plan, which is about a 20% reduction in service, basically failed. So Friday they decided to "pull in and focus our service in places where we have confidence the buses can run" - mostly not in places like West Seattle and Redmond, mostly not with articulated buses, and realizing that the trolley buses (that use electrical wires above the street) can't usually change their routes to avoid a problematic hill. It ended up being about 50% of normal service. Communicating this is a problem, too.
Desmond did say they plan to run mostly normal schedules on Saturday & Sunday, assuming no more snow. Um....
As for us, well, 'nother storm is expected, a windstorm this time, which frequently means falling trees, downed power lines, and so on. Does look like a fairly normal windstorm for us - lights will probably flicker, may even go out, but hopefully not for a week this time please?
We have done prep: We have food that doesn't need much prep. Since our old downstairs flashlight died we got a new one last night. Also batteries. We also have loads of candles, including candles in glass jars (thanks
k_crow for that tip.) I ran the roomba downstairs last night; dishwasher running now, and I'm off to vacuum upstairs & do a last load of laundry.
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Slate's Explainer tackles Iraqis & shoes.
More locally, The Stranger's Erica Barnett provides this illuminating interview with Metro General Manager Kevin Desmond on what the hell's been up with Metro the last 2 days. In a nutshell: Thursday their snow plan, which is about a 20% reduction in service, basically failed. So Friday they decided to "pull in and focus our service in places where we have confidence the buses can run" - mostly not in places like West Seattle and Redmond, mostly not with articulated buses, and realizing that the trolley buses (that use electrical wires above the street) can't usually change their routes to avoid a problematic hill. It ended up being about 50% of normal service. Communicating this is a problem, too.
Desmond did say they plan to run mostly normal schedules on Saturday & Sunday, assuming no more snow. Um....
As for us, well, 'nother storm is expected, a windstorm this time, which frequently means falling trees, downed power lines, and so on. Does look like a fairly normal windstorm for us - lights will probably flicker, may even go out, but hopefully not for a week this time please?
We have done prep: We have food that doesn't need much prep. Since our old downstairs flashlight died we got a new one last night. Also batteries. We also have loads of candles, including candles in glass jars (thanks
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It's A Miserable Life
Dec. 18th, 2008 03:21 pm"“It’s a Wonderful Life” is a terrifying, asphyxiating story about growing up and relinquishing your dreams, of seeing your father driven to the grave before his time, of living among bitter, small-minded people. It is a story of being trapped, of compromising, of watching others move ahead and away, of becoming so filled with rage that you verbally abuse your children, their teacher and your oppressively perfect wife. It is also a nightmare account of an endless home renovation." &mdash Wendell Jamieson
This may not seem important.
siderea gets into why it was:
I was born in 1966. My earliest memories are from the early 70s. By the time I was grappling with my sexuality it was the mid-to-late 80s, and the only serious anti-gay voices I heard were religious.1 This helps fill in some of why the older folks seemed so wigged at the idea, especially those who didn't know they knew anyone who was gay or lesbian.
What changed this? A combination of activism and education on the research that had been done - outside of the psychiatric field.
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cooncat reminded me that I certainly heard anti-gay slurs and crass jokes. But the serious "authority" anti-gay voices were pushing the "It's against God" reasoning, not "Gays are by definition insane" reasoning. Even the anti-gay initiatives of the time resulted in publicizing research that shows that gays are normal.
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What was taught in the psychiatry classrooms of the US -- what had been taught since the mid-1940s [...was...] that same-sex sexual desire was not an ordinary human experience, but necessarily a symptom of a grave and disabling insanity. You could not desire members of your own sex, they taught, without also being a sociopath who would lie, cheat, steal, and rape (anything or anyone) at the slightest opportunity. Homosexuality -- for those of you who are clinicians -- was a personality disorder.
[...]
And this was, they insisted, necessarily so. You couldn't have the symptom of same-sex desire without this attendant whole personality illness, that pervaded every aspect of your life, the total of your personality. You could not be a person of character, could not have close human relationships, could not control your impulses or appetites in any way, they said.
This is what was taught. This was what was taught to psychiatrists. All of them, pretty much. For thirty years.
I was born in 1966. My earliest memories are from the early 70s. By the time I was grappling with my sexuality it was the mid-to-late 80s, and the only serious anti-gay voices I heard were religious.1 This helps fill in some of why the older folks seemed so wigged at the idea, especially those who didn't know they knew anyone who was gay or lesbian.
What changed this? A combination of activism and education on the research that had been done - outside of the psychiatric field.
Among that research the most astonishing was Evelyn Hooker's 1956 "The Adjustment of the Male Overt Homosexual". It was a gold-standard, double-blind experiment. Psychiatry claimed that homosexuality could not exist without all sorts of other debilitating effects throughout the personality. Very well, said Hooker: let's test that hypothesis. She recruited thirty gay men who had never had therapy and thirty controls who were matched for them on age, socioeconomic status and intelligence. Each was given the standard, most esteemed, tests for psychopathology then in use. Their anonymized results were shipped to three highly esteemed experts on those measures, to be graded.There's a lot more goodness here.
And what was returned was that the very best experts in psychological testing for psychopathology, using the best tools of the day, could not tell the gay from straight respondants on the basis of pathology -- or at all. The rate of psychopathology in the two populations was almost identical, with the gay subjects being just a tad better adjusted.
This research made an enormous splash in psychology, but psychiatry wasn't ready to hear it in the 1950s.
Psychiatry was ready to hear it in 1973.
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Bring on the Festivus Pole
Dec. 6th, 2008 02:32 pmIt's time for the annual "Whose the biggest assclown attention whore contest: Atheists or Theists?" - Fark, on what's going on at the state capitol.
And yay for state carpenter Jim Buenzli, who has requested permission to put up a Festivus pole :)
And yay for state carpenter Jim Buenzli, who has requested permission to put up a Festivus pole :)